First, English isn't my native language either. I'm Dutch, like many other people in the community. If you don't understand the language well enough, you could take a course in it or ask someone to translate. It's no use to expect everything you don't understand to be meant abusive.DJ Omnimaga wrote:if people fail to understand that the fact english is not my native language and that all this life shit screwed me up and make me take stuff more the wrong way I am sorry they feel this way. Maybe one day it will happens to you (maybe in a worse way) and you will understand then.
Second, I've been teased and bugged enough in my life (still am, often enough) to know that the only way to deal with it is not making a big deal out of it. This is really something you have to work on yourself, and that you can't solve by trying to change the world around you. You can't expect some random semi-anonymous people in a random community to behave just because you're a sensitive person. You either don't take the risk and stay away or you work on your sensitivity so you can stand it. Trust me; it'll be a useful skill in the real world too, later in life.